46 [M4F] #EST - Does this count as “getting out there”?

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I feel like I’m not the typical Redditor. You wouldn’t expect to find me here and I am looking for the same. I’m seeking an effortless connection. Chemistry that’s instant and has us looking at our phones constantly waiting for the next message. If this doesn’t feel like a breath of fresh air to each other, what's the point? I am currently in a roommate situation and prefer you have the same unmet needs. I’m cautious and discreet and you should be too. I don’t want to change our situations (or do I?) and I prefer taking the time to get to know each other. We both lead busy lives but want to make time for the right person.

About me: 6’+, white, and fit/HWP. I have kids. I enjoy fitness so that I can enjoy food. I’ve got way too many hobbies. I’ve done this before and have some experience.

About you: Married, professional, and you have kids. You have done this before. You take care of yourself. You’re looking for…something? But you’re OK if this turns into more than that.

Do you have a song stuck on repeat this week?

Posted Aug 14, 2026, 12:31 AM UTC

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