idk what to do with this one guy
ooookay so this is bout to be loong and confusing prolly cuz im not the best at explaining
so, my best friend found this one guy in march and they hit it off really good
she went out with him i met him we talked and hes generally a good guy
and in one of his posts i saw a cute guy
a guy who isnt my type at all like at all
and i had no one ever at the time like no talking stages no guys ever
so i added him on snap and he accepted me
my bestie told her guy that i think this lets call him blondie friend of his is cute
he said a lot of like not really good stuff aboud him but not like bad bad
but he said he would say good stuff about me to him
so after a few days he sent a snap me back snap and we started snapping but we would only snap like a corner of our heads which usually means hes not interested
but i was like ill still try
so like not even a full week after my besties guy tried to do a two man but the blondie was not for it
to be specific he said "hell nah"
and my bffs guy told me that
i was pretty sad but like i was understanding he doesnt even know me
we continued snapping and i went to his football game once
after the game he asked me if i was watching him and ofc i said yes
the convo pretty much ended there and back to just snapping it was
we had maybe a few conversations after that vut like really short
eventually he started snapping full face and i did too cuz you know
and he started even talking about random stuff but really like small stuff and it wouldnt last long
but hey progress
and once i saw him in the city and he dapped me up in front of his whole group
i was sooooo happy
anyways
few days after that we were forced to sit with my bffs guy and his other 2 friends basically his friend group just without him
that was a football final tournament
first thing my bffs gut said was
" oh where is your blondie"
and we were talking sometin about that and the other 2 friends asked like why u asking her abot blondie
he said like "oh well thats his girl"
aaand they started making fun of me but like i wasnt mad
so after that he took a pic with me and texted blondie " look im with ur girl" and he said to him to say hi to me WHILE activly snapping with me
idk if im like overreacting but it was a big deal for me kinda
after that nothing really much happend but he keeps becoming more chalant and chill to me
he responds faster and stays up later so he can respond
but like idk what he wants cuz its been 2 and a half months and nothing really special happend
sometimes hes active but wont respond but like it doesnt happen that often
and my bff stopped talking to the guy if you get it idk how to explain
and he didnt remove me or become different so i will think its a win
please someone say their opinion idk what to thinkkk
Posted Aug 14, 2026, 12:32 AM UTC