Let me see...

Married. I guess I'm a cake eater. I have to keep my marriage happy or I lose my daughter. My bedroom is not dead but it’s not exactly a great time either

So why the risk? I'm not fulfilled. My partner doesn't see me. I’ve spent 3 years asking. I’m tired.

What am I looking for:

To fall in love. Truly. I'm free with my emotions and wear my heart on my sleeve. I love talking, texting, video messages, voice notes.
I want us to be obsessed with each other. I want cheesy grins, genuine laughter, and the warmth that comes from being cared for. I want middle of the night: I just missed you messages
I want Radical HONESTY. Lie to anyone else, just not me. Seems ridiculous when I'm looking for an affair, but you don't have to message me.

I wont lie. Attraction matters. I will be upfront with you if I'm not feeling it. Usually attracted to taller white guys HWP/Dad Bod. Doesn't mean don't shoot your shot.

About me:

I'm 5'4, with short dark hair. I workout consistently but I also love food. I'm HWP with a decent ass but little boob to speak of. About to be 39 soon. I wear glasses out of necessity, not for aesthetics.

I have a fun myriad of acronyms, and the tldr is I’m neurospicy. I lean left, and if you’re MAGA leaning just no.

The goal would be to take this offline eventually so I prefer someone around the Sacramento area. That’s not to say I’m not willing to do online only.

I'm a full time WFH & SAHM (work from home stay at home mom) to an under 5 toddler. This means I am limited on when I can get together IRL but I'm pretty available for texting all day. Admittedly in the evenings I slow down for making dinner, kiddo, bath time, etc. my home operates as if I’m a single mom with a roommate.