35M looking for life goals accountability partner - 1 year plan
i work on an engineering team in the healthcare sector, senior level and fully remote.
in the next year i'll be moving to another country (US->EU) which means learning a new language, selling my house, and juggling travel, hobbies, and life goals all at the same time.
the plan is to have a foundation built up and real progress i can reflect on 1 year from now. i can help you set your milestones too if you're new to this.
my goals are:
- daily language study and practice to fluency
- weight loss (30 lbs down, about 80 more to go) while tracking macros + health
- gym work - slowly, because i'm in surgery recovery, mostly foundational
- socializing more (working remote is both a blessing and a curse)
- establishing healthy habits, goals, and routine to do with food, sleep, movement, etc.
accountability:
please have discord. i think daily(ish) check-in calls for 10-15 mins would be a great foundation, then we taper back once we feel each other out, to just text check-ins and calls when we feel like it.
i'd like to have a shared google calendar we each check and update with milestones and plans related to our goals. the ideal partner will be like me and interested in checking the calendar to see what's new and bring those items up, as i will with yours. let's talk out our goals and find solutions.
if this sounds good please dm or comment and share some details about yourself and some of your goals. my name is zacky, and i have a dog and a partner. i'm alternative and full of dry humour.
let's plan together and crush our 2026 into 2027.
Posted Aug 14, 2026, 12:36 AM UTC