What does intelligence in this space mean to you? 🖤

Personally, I love nerdy people who are super into video games, fantasy, or whatever niche topic they could talk about for hours, but being nerdy doesn’t necessarily mean someone is intellectually intelligent.

I also value emotional intelligence way more than simply being “book smart.” Can you communicate clearly, read the room, respect boundaries, handle difficult emotions, and understand the responsibility that comes with a power dynamic? To me, those things matter so much more than how many facts you know or how impressive your vocabulary is.

So when someone says they’re looking for an “intelligent” sub or Domme, what does that actually mean to you? What kind of intelligence are you looking for?