21 [F4M] Do you like being chased or be the one to do the chasing

Is it better to be the one being chased, or the one doing the chasing? My friend says chasing is more fun, but I feel like being pursued is way more flattering, most especially in bed. It makes me feel more engaged and it makes my body heat up more. I think we all have our preferences but if ur a guy who wanna try it out with me, i'm very open with the idea...