41 [M4F] #Boston- Boston cop…major giver wants a receiver..

I get my job out there right away… because some people have a hard no on dating a cop, for political reasons, past experiences, whatever. It’s frustrating as hell….but…Leading with it means those people filter out immediately instead of messaging me and then bailing…or, starting something and then getting weird about it later. Saves everyone time.

That being said…

5’9”, dark hair…salt and pepper creeping in….but I’m owning it….dark eyes…In very good gym shape. Even keeled, don’t rattle easily.

Recently divorced (no cheating involved, just ran its course), one kid. Not looking to rush into anything serious. I’m looking for something mostly physical, low drama, no pressure attached.

DDF is a must. Not meeting at least somewhat publicly first is a dealbreaker for me. Safety, sensitive job, all that.

I have no age preferences in women, since it truly is just a number, but please don’t be like 19 haha.

One thing I’ll say plainly: I get more out of giving than receiving. Not we performative, it’s genuinely just what does it for me. I am not at all tysaying I don’t love receiving haha…but giving is just…my thing. If receiving is your thing too, we’ll probably get along.

If you’ve read this far and want to reach out…tell me your favorite type of lingerie to wear…so I know you’re not a bot 😂.