I feel like I’m exactly the kind of person findom is made for

I’ve realized that one of my biggest problems with quitting findom is that I’m just way too easy to manipulate.

I’m mentally weak when it comes to dommes. A little attention, some teasing, or the right words can completely get into my head, and before I know it I’m considering spending money again. I feel like I’m basically an easy target because I know exactly what buttons can be pushed to make me give in.

The frustrating part is that I’m aware of it. I can tell myself beforehand that I’m going to be strong, but once I’m actually interacting with a domme, my resolve disappears surprisingly quickly.

I really want to break this cycle.

For anyone who has quit findom, especially if you also felt like you were extremely susceptible to manipulation, what actually helped you?

How did you make yourself less vulnerable to those triggers and stop giving in so easily?

I’d genuinely appreciate any advice, because right now I feel like I’m the exact type of person dommes can spot and reel back in.