Is he flirting?

Work

Hey,

I am 24, soon 25. I just started at my first big girl job, less than a year ago.

My buddy (he is 35) (the one that help me with onboarding), is kinda a nonchalant and sarcastic guy. But, we do have a good relationship, I like him a lot.

I am the youngest on the team.

So, I was talking to him, we never met irl. We’re not in the same office but working in the same team.

I asked him “Are you happy that we’re gonna met each other finally”

He said “sure”

Me: 🤨

Him: I want it. But I don’t.

Me: want what?

Him; To me you. But also..

Not

Me: I don’t get it

(I really don’t get, and still don’t)

Like today he said “See, you love me”

Never replied back. Keep going like over and over, when I asked he just deflect.

(Sorry English isn’t my mother tongue, so that’s why I’m afraid to read into it too much)

Posted Aug 14, 2026, 12:48 AM UTC

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