Is he flirting?
Hey,
I am 24, soon 25. I just started at my first big girl job, less than a year ago.
My buddy (he is 35) (the one that help me with onboarding), is kinda a nonchalant and sarcastic guy. But, we do have a good relationship, I like him a lot.
I am the youngest on the team.
So, I was talking to him, we never met irl. We’re not in the same office but working in the same team.
I asked him “Are you happy that we’re gonna met each other finally”
He said “sure”
Me: 🤨
Him: I want it. But I don’t.
Me: want what?
Him; To me you. But also..
Not
Me: I don’t get it
(I really don’t get, and still don’t)
Like today he said “See, you love me”
Never replied back. Keep going like over and over, when I asked he just deflect.
(Sorry English isn’t my mother tongue, so that’s why I’m afraid to read into it too much)
Posted Aug 14, 2026, 12:48 AM UTC