Married life struggle

Need advice on the problem faced by my brother in law ( my bf's brother) about his marriage.

My bf's brother married someone through arranged marriage in may of this year and devuda full drama start. Veelu first pelli choopulu choosukundi like 2yrs back. Ammai yes or no cheppaledu immediately just hold lo pettindi. My in laws were patient because they liked her and also they wanted him to get married as he's in 30.

Sudden ga she and her family ghosted my in-laws so they assumed it's off and gave a break for pelli choopulu.

This year they found another proposal but the girl was hindu ( By bf's family are Christians) and wants to marry in temple. My in-laws weren't thrilled about it but ok ane vallu if my brother in law wanted it.

Later sudden ga first ammai call chesi let's get married i just needed the time to realise it ani annindi after months of silence and ghosting.

Na bf vaddu annadu , because he felt suspicious that ah ammai vallu vere match set chesukoni adi cancel ithe ela vacharu ani. But my brother in law wanted to marry her as she said sorry ( bruh 🙄)

His parents also said think about it but didn't oppose him.

Ok they talked for months again. Marriage fix iendi. Ammai and her family adigina list ithe naaku too much ani pinchindi. Groom kanna bride ke gifts and demands ekkuva.

She asked for lots and lots of clothes, including the lehenga and white wedding dress, makeup list ithe costly makeup products to safety pin varaku ( nene a beauty products app lo discounts vunayo search chesi, exact products links send chesa na bf ki cause obv he has no idea) it was around 10k

Also they asked a goat 🐐, rice bags, gift baskets of sweets and gifts to bride like bags and so.

Also groom's side for both the rings for bride and groom.

The bride's side only got one suit for groom and a pair of clothes for his parents, One gift basket and some furniture like a table , cot and few other small items.

They even asked my bf to pay the tip for the catering guys they brought.

My bf spent his savings too for it like around 2lakhs+.

She asked for diamond ring and iphone. My brother in law em respond avaka povadam tho " hehe just kidding" ani anindi

After marriage she got sick ( hepatitis A) in few days.

She was so moody and rude to everyone. Emole health baaledu ani evaru em analedu.

Tbh I've a doubt about how she got that hepatitis endukante hepatitis A can be caused by 2 reasons.

1. Drinking fecal contaminated water or food washed with such water

2. Having oral-anal sex with someone who's infected or unhygienic.

I hate thinking this way but she came back from banglore and stayed at her home months before the marriage. Her mom cooks the food and no one else in the house got sick even her alcoholic brother.

She was a nurse working at some hospital in Bangalore, her family lives in chhattisgarh.

She always gives attitude and notiki entha vasthe antha anesthundi.

She doesn't really seem like she respect or love her husband.

Recent ga my bf got her AC just so she can rest well.

Last 2or 3 days nundi she is throwing a fit , asking mother in law to not enter the room ( mil only goes in to bring that queen some food or check her health)

Changed her phone passwords and kept her husband out of their room all mornings and built wall of pillows at night. Saidnshe doesn't want to talk to her husband or his family anymore.

Nenu na bf em anukuntunam ante she already had some relationship/ bf before and doesn't want to get married to my brother in law but bf tho set avaledu so she came back.

I told my bf that she is trying rage bait inlaws and husband so they lash out or break off the marriage so she can paint them as bad people.

What do u think?? I want to see others perspective on this.

She's 29 and he is 32