41yo looking for other sensual guys

I'm a sensual guy. I like building up slowly, working with a guy to gradually become more aroused. Sitting with those feelings, amplifying them, enjoying them. And harnessing them to enjoy pleasure.

I'd like to find guys who are like-minded and who can appreciate where I'm coming from. I haven't done bate/edge coaching or anything similar but it's an interest I'd like to explore.

Other things about me:

• I'm a side, but I enjoy many types of anal play, just not fucking.
• Edging, gooning, and bating are big favourites.
• I'm gay.
• I love finding sensitive spots on a guy's body.
• I like to chat with guys who can write well. Over time I'm open to voice chats too if it works.
• I'm cool with sharing pics but I don't send face.

If you think we'd click, hit me up :)