I'm at a point where I'm starting to think all men are the same and I don't want to think like that.

Almost every single guy that has shown interest in me for the past 2 years has started to show similar traits as my last 2 exs. I was single for years after my last relationship. But almost every guy who has shown interest in me has started to remind me of my ex. They either show signs of being possessive or paranoid. Even my BOSS shows similar red flags. No i am not dating my boss. But he acts possessive too. The other day he made it very obvious that he was looking at my phone screen and when I caught him I said "You are so nosey!" Then he said "yes i am" and he also threw an apron at my feet randomly the other day and then said "Sorry I felt impulsive." Wtf... im not even dating him. Hes just my boss. And he seems possessive. Im at a point where I sometimes wonder if i should only date women now since Im bisexual anyways.