33[M4F] #North Carolina; or #Online - Nerdy white guy seeking a large and dominant black woman with an even bigger personality and heart to take the lead!

Hi! Just a dorky white guy here looking for a very full-figured black woman with a nerdy personality who knows how to take charge and loves to strongly lead! I'm 33, 5'10, 240lbs, a huge softie, and a very big geek (glasses and all!) who is always digging into games and technology, collecting and fixing stuff, watching anime or reading manga, messing around with photography, and super into exploring and road trips. I love how it feels to talk and connect with a strong, fun and smart black woman who is confident and kind while being gentle and sweet too! I need someone in my life who doesn't hold back about her preferences and needs, and is aggressively direct about her attractions, desires, and racial interests, while still being genuine and seeking something more too. Black women carry a kind of chemistry and beauty I feel hopelessly attracted to as a white man, and they blend it with this effortlessly immense level of authority and power in their beings that I can't help but want to be subservient to in a partnership.

In terms of a relationship, I'm looking to explore something that has potential to be a long term connection. I want to be with someone who isn't just seeking a quick moment and wants an ongoing and committed relationship where we can grow and evolve. As a sub I need someone who can take control and truly train, teach, and make the best of me, and I am not lying when I say I'm wanting someone to truly own me if the connection is right. I'm a very big nerd and a really awkward mess of a person. I respect people's quirks and uniqueness, and I think that someone being an honest mess is much more endearing than a perfect lie. But most importantly I just want to be with someone who, outside of anything intimate or otherwise, I can truly call my best friend. I'm willing to put everything I am into this for the right person who can give me that sense of mutual belonging, and I hope I can find someone who feels that way too. All I ask from someone is to treat me like a human being and respect my limits in the process, much as I would for you.

When it comes to what I'm seeking physically I don't want to beat around the bush. I prefer black women who are larger, plus-sized, BBW or SSBBW, and I'm not shy about being open about what I like with someone who reaches out. I view larger black women as genetically superior beings for having bodies that are often substantially bigger, heavier, and stronger than my own white male existence, and my preference is tuned from the ground up for someone like that. I'm not ashamed of who I am, and It feels extremely right to be overpowered by or laid-out beneath a larger black woman that has complete authority and control. To me a black girl who is any manner of soft and sturdy, cuddly and curvy, brawny and robust, heavy and hefty, or whatever term you might prefer is the perfect expression of womanhood. I simply prefer someone who's on the larger, taller, bigger, stronger, and/or heavier side in some way shape or form. It resonates so deeply with me to think of black women who's racial makeup and genetics have been unstoppably strong and powerful like that, and if you've got a hormone condition like PCOS or PMOS and similar then that's even better. And no, I'm not joking. I'm generally super kink friendly, looking for good conversation open to the potential for a real or long term connection, and open minded and willing to explore new things.

I don't mind if you're older or younger, just be a kind and open minded person who's eager to reach out! I'm relatively open minded to people's preferences, including in the bedroom, and would like the same in someone else. But some hard limits are drug use, smokers, and things like pain chastity, anal, scat, cucking, and others (we can discuss the rest later). Either way, I’m happy both just to talk or welcome something long term, while hoping for real conversation or connection with a strong black woman.

Maybe I've found my way to someone reading this who also feels this way? Maybe it's you?