So tired of the same thing

My husband and I got married recently and have been living together for about a year now. I’m not really sure if I just didn’t realize while we were dating or I just didn’t want to, but now that we live together he’s just a genuinely mean person. He does things repeatedly that he knows upsets me and I mean genuinely being annoying like he’s my little brother and not my husband. I know he probably thinks he’s just playing around but I’ve expressed many times that when he does something I don’t like and I ask him to stop I mean it but he acts like it’s a game. He doesn’t take me seriously and when I get upset he throws it in my face “here we go again” and “you always do this” are things I hear more than I love you. I know I’m not perfect by any means but I try my best just to make him happy and do everything he wants me to. I just wish he would respect me as a person and not just toy with me and guilt me when I get upset. This isn’t the half of the stuff I could go on about lol, but it’s the most infuriating.

TLDR: my husband ragebaits me until I can’t take it anymore and when I get upset he blames me.