karuthu venum

nethu naan oru post potte regarding how when someone posts for asking help with love life or how to approach someone alot of people some people just reply adhellam venam da, adi vaanga venam pa apdi ipdi so i was genuinely curious and asked whether such people say that because they have been hurt before and never want to or couldn’t trust someone again or fall in love again or just that u stay away from all that stuff because you dont want drama nu nenachu. i deleted that post within like 10 mins itself 😭 because thookam vandhuruchu but 2 people had commented on that.

they both had the most beautiful answers : one about how he/she is holding out for someone because they believe in date to marry while they work on themselves knowing that they have attachment problems andha maari (i love self-aware people sm) and the other was evlo dhaan heartbreak nadandhaalum what’s the point of life u dont take the risk apdinu nu.

what’s your take? why do you hate love or relationships? or stay away from it?