i (f15) found out my boyfriend (m15) drinks

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last night i finished hanging out with a friend and he texted me “how was your day”. and i realized he kept misspelling a bunch of words and i joked and said it can’t be that hard to spell. he then said he was a bit drunk. he said he went on a walk with his older brother (m20 i think) and he snuck 6 vodka lemonades? and my boyfriend drank 4 apparently. i’ve spent this whole day uncomfortable and i just went to bed early last night because i didnt want to continue talking. we literally haven’t even dated for a week dude. i know it’s not my issue but we’re different people. i don’t like party’s and i don’t drink but i really do love him and im probably being dramatic but i don’t know what to do because now i feel shitty and like this is a big deal.

he’s a pretty insecure boy to be honest. he’s always saying he doesn’t deserve me etc. and i always reassure him and he’s always saying he wants to be the best version of himself and be good for me. i dunno what happened with that lmao. i can’t talk about these things through text though, id have to see him and somehow bring it up. it’s stressing me out big time because we’re eachothers first.

Posted Aug 14, 2026, 10:08 PM UTC

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