Dont give up guys, its possible.

Not sure if anyone remembers me. I used to post about my ex all the time. We've been broken up for a while now and I finally decided to get back into the dating world.

I met this insanely cool chick who matches me so much better than anyone ive ever been with. Within a month of of us dating I took my own advice ive shared here and there of just being upfront about my kink. It was insanely nerve wrecking but I did it and figured if it didnt go well its only been a month, ill get back out there.

She replied with "thats it? I have IBS. I be farting all the time" and boy she wasnt bluffing. I get daily videos, she farts around me when we hang out. Even jokes and will go "knock knock" and ill say who's there and she will fart. They are pretty loud and shes releived she can be with someone who appreciates them cause her ex would shame her for being gassy. Just be yourself and go into the connection genuinely and not kink chase, and if you really have feelings for someone brave it all and let it out, if shes not into your kink than shes not for you so no loss. Just. Thats the important part, as early as possible so no ones time is wasted and feelings dont get too deep if its a deal breaker.

I wont be posting stories of her, nothing against anyone who does, I just dont feel comfortable, I realized I posted my ex so much was because i was unhappy and it gave me a dopamine rush that I had something alot of people wanted, not great, but its the truth and im glad people enjoyed them.

I just wanted to throw this out there to all the people who were like me thinking they'd never be understood or accepted. You can and will. Wish you all the best.