I have very serious question for all men and women.

I have been seeing posts about ( idk reddit keeps giving me martial posts) , rants saying

By women saying men wanting only homemakers , and not able to find someone who would support them.

and men ranting they can't find homemaker anymore.

Women complaining they cant find men wanting to fully provide anymore..

I got curious and started reading surveys and gallop pakistan report and shockingly

61% of totak women in pakistan are actually willing wanting to be homemakers (Reality figure is 73% , where 12% is forced to leave jobs)

50%-55% of total educated women (BS holders) wanting a homemaker rolw willing.

Now for men around 42% of total men are okay with having a working wife.

And 55% to 60% of educated men (Bs holders) are okay with having a working wife.

Now for provisional structure

Around 70 to 75 percent men are of 100% provisional mindset

Around 20 percent is Hybrid model of wifes helping somewhat and less than 5 are actually wanting 50/50 split.

SO MY QUESTION IS THE DEMOGRAPHIC SEEMS QUITE BALANCED TO ME , THEN WHY CANT THOSE PEOPLE FIND EACH OTHER? OR MAYBE IS THAT OTHER SPECIFIC DEMANDS LIKE HOW MUCH IS THE MAN EARNING? ( AND THE REVERSE EQUIVALENT IF WHATEVER THAT IS WOMEN , NO OFFENCE I JUST DONT KNOW).

SO WHY DONT THEY FIND EACHOTHER?