38 M4F #NJ Can we all just be realistic for a moment?

Good evening! Can we all just admit that some people on here…and by some…I mean a lot of people are looking for something that doesn’t exist? That something is an instant spark. Far too many people immediately end the conversation after a short time because they feel it’s not there or are far too picky. We all have standards, but Let’s be realistic, what people want takes time, needs to develop. Can we all have a little patience with each other?

Now that we got that out of the way.. I’m looking for someone to chat with throughout the day and evening while also respecting we have lives outside of each other. Respect is number one priority. While I love a good flirty conversation, I’m not looking to sext all the time. I’m hoping this can turn into a real in person thing without changing each other’s situations.

A little a bit me, I’m married (obviously), a dad, successful career, I like to laugh and have a good time. Life is too short to be serious all the time. I’ve been told lm objectively good looking. If this sounds good to you, I’d love to chat!