38M Online Dominant Seeks Plus-Sized Obedient Online submissive For 24/7 Training & Total Life Control
It is important that you read this entire lengthy post
With 10+ years of online experience, I am a Man with a Dominant Nature (a Remote Controller) offering an online 24/7 position to an obedient plus-sized man with a strong and natural will to serve, please, and learn--all just as real as if it occurred in-person. Though, I find it best that you are in a time zone that is close to Central.
I need you to serve me for the sake of service, not sex--I am not interested in catering to your fetishes, kinks, and sexual fantasies.
Keep in mind: submissive = fully inclined and truly willing to submit to the will and authority of another. Synonyms - docile, malleable, conformable, compliant, and OBEDIENT. Other important keywords - receptive, loyal, committed, reliable...and OBEDIENT.
ABOUT ME
- I am a control freak--what I say goes!
- I operate contrary to mainstream practices and terminology. For instance, this is NOT about BDSM, but a truly Dominant/submissive lifestyle.
- This is not just some "role" or "scene" and I am not here to "play".
- I am not a top seeking a bottom; I am not a daddy seeking a son.
- I do not seek an it, a boy or boi, a bitch, a fag, a pup, a pig, a slut, a sissy, or a femme.
- I am not looking for a horny man, I seek an obedient plus-sized submissive man.
- I do not Incorporate chastity devices or "toys".
- I am not aggressive, but assertive. I am not abusive, but adamant.
- I do not humiliate, I teach humility.
- The only "Give and take" will be me giving the directives and you taking them.
Section I - IMPORTANT REQUIREMENTS You must match EVERY SINGLE ONE; I am very choosy as I am in this for the long run, so I do not intend to make exceptions, even if you match all but ONE of the below:
- You must ALREADY be visibly plus-sized (to be blunt, FAT)--230-240lbs is a good start but around 300lbs and up is an even better start! If you have double chins and a round, plump face, you are on the right track! If you are in the process of losing weight, please do not approach.
- Be single AND live alone; having a private room/space while still living with others will not work for me, even if you are planning to move out in the future. Do NOT approach if you have a busy day-to-day schedule! Ample availability is important! You need to be at my beck and call!
- You must own business/office attire as it is my preferred clothing for plump submissive men--regardless of whether you normally wear such attire or not, it will become your day-to-day wear. If you do not already own this attire, waiting for you to purchase it is not an option.
- Be clean-shaven (no facial hair). Not willing to shave? Walk on by.
- Have a webcam and a microphone, ideally a smart device.
Section II - WHAT I SEEK IN A CHUBBY SUBMISSIVE
- Match ALL of Section I!
- Your subservience is inherent and natural--it does not “turn off”, “switch”, nor come from a situational “sub-space”.
- You realize that your place is to serve in any way, shape, and form to ensure MY happiness.
- Be SELFLESS and not SELFISH!! Leave your assumptions and expectations, as well as preferences and routines, not just at the door but even farther away!
- You understand that just performing any act of service--big or small--is a reward in itself.
- Be eager, be committed, and be humble!
- You realize you are here for ME and not yourself.
- Do. Not. Waste. My. Time.
In short: Just do as you're told and we will get along fine.
Section III - WHAT TO EXPECT Through IM, Email, and Webcam, with each passing day, you will have your routines, behavior, appearance...whatever else I prefer...shaped through detail-oriented Online Training & Total Life Control--MY Way. This will NOT be egalitarian!
Section IV - WHEN CONTACTING ME
- I would rather you message ME first; your very first message should explain how you match ALL of Section I, as well as how you believe you are the one to serve me. Advertise yourself to me, and you just might impress me!
Take the initiative and message me first--show me that you are indeed who I look for.
Your first message must be you explaining why you have contacted me and how you think you are the one to serve me; you especially must tell how you match ALL of Section I; you must describe the business attire and footwear you currently own. If I have to ask 20 questions to receive that information, that is already not a good look. But I must remind you, if you do not indicate that you match what I seek in a submissive as well ALL of Section I, you would just be wasting your time contacting me.
I do not like to ignore people's messages, but for me to be sure you've paid attention and read this entire post, the first thing you will mention in your first message is "I will dress for you, Sir". If instead you send me a low effort message such as just "Hello" or "Hi", or something irrelevant, I will decide not to reply. That is your warning.
Posted Aug 18, 2026, 12:06 PM UTC