It hurts yaar

Hi, 24M here, had been posting about getting a connection but hardly any luck, saw a large number of posts for M4F with almost 0 comments and i guess hardly they get DMs as well, but see for F4Ms, comments after comments non stop and i am damm sure there will be huge number of DMs in their inbox and thus they get overwhelmed, don’t get it why socity is so indifferent. I get it that men on reddit mostly look for nudes or someting nsfw but there are some men who suffer who suffer because of them