Missouri resources?

I’m a 42-year-old female from Missouri i’m looking to see if anyone has had any success with any providers who do not gaslight or treat you terribly? Also looking for support group groups or friends.
I’m in a very low place and very scared. I have a lot of symptoms, but nobody seems to be able to help or diagnose me with anything other than anxiety.
I’m in the state where I’m going into a fight fight every day because I can’t get help.
I’d love to meet other people and hear about any physicians that are knowledgeable and respectful. Thank you so much