What has dating in gen z become?

For context I'm Gen Z and women and men in my generation are interesting to say the least. The common idea I see (this may not be true) is that women won't "settle" for less and men now are impossible to date. I've recently posted a comment on YT where the video was like "What's something you find attractive in women?" I responded "When she feel's comfortable to eat around me and joke like a child" and it got a lot of positive traction as if men like that don't exist anymore. I always see people talking about how men are in a bad state, but I feel like its only the bad apples in society and a lot of men (like me) are just look for a funny and chill women but some women try and put up the maneater or evil face and wonder why they might not attract the right crowd. I don't know if my generations dating is just cooked or if finding a genuinely good person is like IMPOSSIBLE. Lmk your opinions because I'd love to know what yall think.