42 [M4F] #CostaMesa - Are you a Woman Who Maybe Has an Oral Fixation? Patient, Chill Guy to Explore That With Here

Hi, I am looking for a woman who is curious about and delights in the idea of orally pleasing a partner, but for whatever reason hasn't found a way to make that come to fruition yet. If you'd like to give this a whirl with someone who is patient, low pressure, and non-judgmental, please read on.

I am a 42-year old, single Asian guy, dad bod-esque, 5'10", and DDF. I’m pretty low-key so I like watching movies of all kinds, playing indie games, reading bad sci-fi, and slowly savoring pricey coffee in a cozy cafe.

If we do decide to eventually take things further, you’ll be fully in the cockpit controlling the tempo and depth. It would be less about me finishing, and more about exploring this together while keeping things light and playful. I wouldn’t just sit there either, but stay engaged, communicative (although coherency may depend on what's happening at the moment), and make sure that you are comfortable. Afterwards, we can just chill or hang out until we’re ready to say our goodbyes. And if it works out, I would love to have this unfold into an ongoing casual connection with some good mutual chemistry.

I am looking for a single or ENM woman who is DDF. Enthusiasm, attitude, and mindset matter more than experience (I am kind of new to this myself).

If you’re interested in this dynamic, please send a message over. Even a “Hey” or your fave drink would be a great start. As long as this post is up, I’m actively checking DMs and open to connecting. I’m good with taking the time to chat, and if we discover that we’re both on the same page, we’ll meet for a drink or coffee to make sure we vibe and go from there.