I can't stop thinking of marriage...

Rant

Hello there. I am an Indian revert (21M).

I am in university right now studying to become a doctor.

I also am a business owner looking to scale my business. I go to the gym daily and I am studying to become a Hafiz inshallah!

I am working on myself financially, spiritually, and physically every single day .

But I find myself constantly thinking of how I'm going to get married.

I keep reading revert men on Reddit and others saying how hard it is to find a suitable wife who is pious, kind, caring, who works on herself, and is beautiful.

But more than that, I'm worried that even if I find someone like this who is compatible with me, that their parents won't accept me simply because I'm a revert.

I don't have any crazy expectations from a partner. I want to provide for myself and don't want my wife to work unless she absolutely wants to.

I want to fully provide for her needs financially, physically, and emotionally.

I'm just really worried and I often can't focus because of this.

I would love some advice. Is it really that hard for reverts to get married?

Posted Aug 21, 2026, 2:24 AM UTC

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