feeling like i’m constantly doing something wrong in my relationship

i feel like i’m constantly doing or saying the wrong things in my relationship. every week, it feels like there’s something new that i’ve messed up or something i could have handled better.

i genuinely don’t know what else i can do sometimes. i try to communicate better, be more understanding, give space when it’s needed, show love, apologize when i’m wrong, and work on myself. but somehow, i still end up feeling like i’m failing as a partner.

the hardest part is that i don’t want to become resentful or start walking on eggshells. i love my girlfriend deeply, and i want this relationship to work. i want to be someone who makes her feel safe, loved, and understood.

but lately, i’ve been wondering where the line is between genuinely growing as a partner and constantly feeling like i’m not enough.