55 [M4F] #SF #BayArea #EastBay Seeking Amorous Adventure - Slow-Jam Style

If you're looking to be seen and cherished, to receive care and attention from a man with a big heart and a lot of love to give, and you're missing passion and intimacy in your life, I'd like to explore something with you.

Here's what I'm imagining for us:

I'll want to learn all about you, how you think, how you grew up, and all the little quirks and obsessions that are uniquely you. I'll be curious about what lights you up and brings you pleasure, especially what we discover together.

We can share that hilarious comedy show, the riveting space opera, the song that makes us cry and the one that turns us on, and that cozy small plates spot that blew your mind. We can banter about philosophy and the absurdities in life that crack our perception of reality. I'll meet you at your depth.

I'll want to spend time with you in person. To build our connection through gaze and breath and touch, and the nonverbal presence that can be so magnetic and intoxicating. I'll want you to smile to yourself when you think about our time together.

I'll cherish our warm thread of daily contact, feel that spike of elation whenever I get a text from you, and anticipate hearing your voice. I'll be inspired to be my best self with you. You'll be next to me in my thoughts as I go about my day.

I'm a man who's curious about nature and relationships, science and emotion, how we think and feel. The heartfelt expression of artists and musicians moves me. I like to build things from structures to sensory experiences. Music is a language and as a musician I am expressive in it. I work across the arts and tech and am at home in the synthesis of those.

I'm 6' tall, solid, strong, love exploring the panoramic trails on Grizzly Peak and rolling in the surf and sand in Santa Cruz, and moving heavy boxes in service of amazing experiences.

I'm a married dad, almost done raising kids. I get around the Bay Area and beyond and have a flexible schedule for meetups. I'm looking for someone also married or otherwise in a settled situation who wants this in her life.

I prioritize safety and discretion to protect the people I care about. I only want one person and would like to be your one person for this.

It's ok if you don't know whether all this is for you. That's something we can figure out and create together and there's no hurry.

If you're open to exploring a new friendship, I'm down to chat about anything. If we hit it off, let's meet for something coffee-like. I would love to hear what you've been curious about recently.

*notabot