Your thoughts on rishta karwane wali community in our country

I want to know how are do dealing with it, when your parents are looking rishtas for you.. what type of people you deal with..? Or how is you experience with that..

Im new to this shh😭 and VERY introvert..
Its hard to talk to people that come to see you.. idk its just very weird to me.. and mostly you have to face that again and again until you finally get married.. and some times they come with there whole family just to see a girl😭 i hate it.. and my parents dont even ask for my opinion. The just said ke unka business bohat acha hai.. apna ghar bi abi hai.. like?? Uska me kya karon?? Kisi ke business se mera kya lena dena?? All they do is tell me about there business and not anything about the guy.. like???

Then after marriage if something happened or they are not compatible the gonna blame it on the girls naseeb.. like?? Your mistake and ignorance is not my naseeb when you did not even ask for my opinion…

I dont like it. today some family again conna some see me and i dont even know the guys name.. idk what is wrong with my parents.. they nevverrr neverrrrr talk to us about marriage and stuff and now there are forcing us like we are some kind of qarz on then…
And my mother the dont have opinions of her own..

Idk what topic i wanna talk about right now im just ranting randomly😭😭 maybe im just mad at my parents… and and they are very very different to talk to. I tried so may time the just did not listennnnnn…..