Am I friendzoned? Help me.

Help me. I’m a MM who has been talking to a woman for about 6 weeks. We met online-Facebook. She’s the best part of my day. We knew what we are doing. She is a MW with kids. Her time is valuable. I’m a workaholic. We have been on 4 quick coffee and lunch dates. We live in the burbs privacy can be tuff. She’s amazing, everything I’ve been looking for we talk all day every day. Phone and text. Share pics. She’s intelligent, got wit, and kind. We’ve sexted. But we have only ever kissed on the cheek and hugged. Kinda touched her hand once. I feel like a jackass. We are both 42…it’s not like we haven’t done this before… not an affair but… why is it as if we are shy? I want her to say meet me.. grab my hand….make out with me…..SOMETHING. We get along. I desperately just want to be with this girl physically. What do I do?