am I missing something?

husband and I have been married 3 years, two kids. so we were working together for a bit, I quit recently because we’re relocating here in the next month… so before leaving this new girl came to work for the company, mind you she’s 30, we’re in our early 20s still.. doesn’t matter.. so she was talking with my husband and i was asked what my name was by her I gave her my name, my husband carried the convo saying “that’s my wife” and she goes on to say “that’s your wife?” He said yes and she said “wait do you know he’s calling you his wife?” I said “yes and we have two kids together” she said “oh I thought he was calling you his work wife” and they kept on talking and I walked off and let the convo be because I didn’t want to think too much into it. Then a couple of weeks later she goes on to ask me “has he always been big?” I asked her “what do you mean by that?” She said “not fat I’m saying as in muscular. has he always been like that?” and I honestly didn’t know what to say in that moment because… what the actual f ??? so now what should I even think… apparently this woman has a BD, and she was having some comments thrown out there as far as “I don’t like friendly women around my BD.” Or “I need to find me a man, my BD isn’t doing it right.”

so what’s yalls take on this whole thing?? be respectful but definitely want some thought, because am I tripping?! or is she trying to get something out of my husband?