35 [M4F] young #Seattle attorney looking to explore his submissive side

NSFWM4F

Hello, I’m a 35 year old Seattle-based attorney. I’m generally accustomed to being the person who has things handled. I spend a lot of my professional life keeping my composure. My career has been built on such a persona. Outside of work, though, I’m interested in exploring what it feels like to completely reverse that dynamic.

I’m looking to meet a confident, assertive woman who enjoys taking the lead and is interested in exploring the same. There’s something especially appealing to me about the contrast between my professional life and being able to willingly give someone else the reins. I like confidence, intelligence, wit, and a woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to say so. Experience is preferred but not necessary. I have been in dynamics with both experienced and inexperienced dommes and each instance has been a wonderful experience.

I’m not necessarily looking for someone who is domineering every second of the day. What interests me is the dynamic—the trust involved in letting someone else take control, the anticipation, the playful power exchange, and the feeling of being able to leave my usual role at the office. I’m attracted to someone who can be commanding without taking herself too seriously and who understands that a good dynamic is built on communication, mutual respect, and chemistry.
Ideally, I’d like to meet someone interested in actually getting to know each other.

I typically like a physically dominant partner, but the mental aspect of domination is what I enjoy the most. I’m a former athlete and wax and wane from being in good shape to less than good shape as the demands of my career come and go. I don’t necessarily have a “type” so to speak, but I adore a strong woman.

Please introduce yourself if you’re interested in getting to know me. Include your favorite color in your first message. 💙

Posted Aug 21, 2026, 2:34 AM UTC

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