What is actually worse : mutilation (like getting blinded , your ears cut off , scarred wounds or losing your limbs) , getting murdered or getting raped (anything that just leads a gential to the hole against consent)?

I noticed people often online say rape is the worst crime ever, worse than murder. And it gets a lot of attention than everyday murders because of victims speaking out. Rapists are seen as the ultimate evil criminals in our society , But there is also people who do mutilation and literally scar your body away your parts , or murderers who simply shoot or stab you to death on street . but you barely hear them in the newspapers as just brutal criminals.

Is the public is out of touch what victims and perpetrators should have ?