Remove Lust, and Women Become Irrelevant to Me

Remove lust, and I can honestly say women would become completely irrelevant in my eyes. I don’t see women as particularly useful as friends either. They generally don’t like sports cars or wild experiences, and when they pretend to, I don’t really believe them.
I even think male friendships are overrated, but that’s for another day.
It makes me wonder whether testosterone plays a bigger role in how men perceive women. If you lowered testosterone to the lowest healthy level, would you see women as nothing more than another person rather than someone you’re sexually interested in?
When I wake up with morning wood, my thoughts are mostly sexual, but once it fades, women largely disappear from my consciousness. The only time I really think about women is when I’m keeping track of my sexual history.

Posted Aug 26, 2026, 4:28 AM UTC

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