Why I always ended up manifesting for My brother instead of myself

So I wanted a dream Physique and instead he ended up with a great body, I wanted a perfectly low hairline instead he got one, I wanted to get a Handsome chad like face instead he is the one who looks more chad now and i wanted to learn kickboxing and now he is enrolling in the kickboxing even tho we never discussed about it. So why and how he always ended up with the things that I want ??? Please explain and why am I unable to manifest those things yet ?