Seeking ASD couples therapy - ideas?

So I am on state medical which makes finding a therapist, esp a specialized one challenging. I thought based on credentials she would be a good fit, ASD couples work. I like her but honestly, I’m kind of surprised at her take on things. It doesn’t seem to me she’s very versed in ASD at all 🫠. My significant other has better insurance so I’m thinking of trying again. What have you found to be the best resource at truly finding an ASD therapist? Is there a specialized website or anything??