Just a guy looking for some gamers like me

I have a lot of games. I'm not into turned based, card games, or mobas. I'll never say never but none the less.
Games installed . Battlefield, black flag, crimson desert, cyberpunk, dayz ( my goat game, Kcd2, red dead 2, re9, snow runner, war dogs, buying dawn walker, Batman Arkham knight, star citizen
I have a ton more games but I'm just looking for people who are not super competitive but still have moments, super chill, funny humor good and bad, I can take jokes. Maybe a little closer to my age because I don't know if I can keep up with these youngins.
Just need a group of people who love gaming and keep up with it like I do and love to play and laugh and hang out.
I have discord but I never really use it. So l barely know how to work it. My wife also games and would be cool meeting other couples. I don't know I'm just throwing V things out there.