Joseph's preference...

I hope this doesn't come across the wrong way because I personally find him to be an okay person and I think he has a nice personality. I'm only on episode 2, but I'm wondering how someone can say they're looking for a Christian woman, presumably referring to a traditional Christian woman, while also bringing up sexual topics.

I'm not saying that someone can't be Christian and have those conversations or have their own views on sex, but in that case, I think the religious aspect can feel a bit contradictory. I actually don't think this is uncommon either. You sometimes come across men who emphasise that they're Christian, but then you have to remind yourself of that when some of their views or behaviour seem to go against what you'd typically associate with those values.

Even the question about sex before marriage stood out to me. He said, "I would always want to have sex before marriage." That's obviously his preference, and I'm not saying he shouldn't be honest about it. But if you're looking for a Christian woman, your preference is something that wouldn't really align with the values you're apparently looking for, then I don't understand why the religious statements are emphasised so much.

Saying "I'm looking for a Christian woman. My Christian faith is very important to me" is quite a strong statement. He's certainly not the only person who does this, but I find it a little odd when someone places so much emphasis on their faith while holding views that seem quite different from the values they would presumably expect from the Christian woman they're looking for.