Match Rate

Hi everyone - I’m a (pretty attractive) female in NYC. I started hinge 5 weeks ago and have ~115 matches, ~90% of whom liked me first. I have HingeX but I only get to the Discover section every few days. I feel like I’ve sent out at least 100 likes, maybe more, but only ~15 of my matches are people who I liked first. I’m fairly selective in who I will accept a like from, but I’m definitely more selective in who I will send a like to versus accept a like from.

Anyway, some of the guys I’ve sent likes to are definitely in the top bracket, but many of them are mid / should be very achievable for me. Are these guys really all saying ‘no’ to my like, or are they not seeing my profile somehow?

Posted Aug 27, 2026, 1:06 PM UTC

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