Am I doing alright on online dating?

I’ve never dated before because of a lot of baggage from trauma as a kid. Now at (25m) I downloaded Tinder at the suggestion of my friends. In the 3 and a half days of having it I’ve gotten 6 matches and 10-15 likes as well. My question is, am I doing alright for a guy on online dating. I hear it’s brutal for both genders, more so for men though.

Going forward with matches too. Is asking girls on a coffee date a reasonable thing to do for a first date, or would I be seen as being lazy or cheap.

Thanks in advance!

Posted Aug 28, 2026, 7:44 AM UTC

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