Watching porn with a partner?

Have you ever watched porn together with a partner/lover? It seems like loads of couples are curious about watching porn together, but bringing it up can feel… awkward.

Maybe you're worried they'll think you're unhappy with your sex life. Maybe you're not sure how they'll react. Or maybe it just feels like one of those conversations that's easier to avoid.

For those who have watched together - how did the conversation about watching it come up? Was it a mutual decision or was one person more into the idea of it than the other? Did it enhance your sex life or was it underwhelming? Have you learnt anything else from the experience?

And for those who haven't tried it - what's holding you back?