I’m pushing people away??

I don’t have much friends. And sometimes when I get annoyed at the friends I do have I just stay in my circle. Like for example my bfs female friend took a pic of me talking to this guy who’s like a decade older than me and she told me bf that the dude said he doesn’t deserve me. The guy never said that so I’m not sure if she misunderstood but I removed her. My bf was like she was just watching his back. I think I misunderstood it as betrayal since I was trying to be her friend. Then my bf was like I just wanna be alone and he talked about leaving me because apparently I don’t wanna help anyone and that includes giving him $10 to get on drafts king.

Like give out rides to his sis in law she’s pregnant and doesn’t have a car or take her to get some food. I don’t really hangout with her as much because every time I do I feel like she’s always complaining about something. And sometimes I’ll go weeks without talking to her bc she gets on my nerves. But I have taken her to get sum food before I just don’t do it all the time. Like am I supposed to give out to people all the time?? Sometimes I just want a quiet evening or if it’s my day off I just want to be left alone since I work in customer service and have to help/talk to people all day.