Lindsay Clancy discourse has me questioning my marriage

Yep, you read that right. My wife of 4 years (been together over 8 years) doesn’t technically believe that she’s innocent, but thinks the husband deserves just as much blame and punishment as Lindsay does because he “got to do whatever the fuck he wanted while she suffered”. While ignoring the fact Lindsay was a stay at home mom, had a nanny, was on premium health insurance, her husband worked at home to help out, etc. Our sex life has always been top notch. Literally two or three times a week we can’t keep our hands off each other. Now I’m looking at her completely different and not nearly as attracted. Especially since we have two young kids of our own. Funny, nobody defended Chris Watts for what he did to his family (as they shouldn’t). Also, it’s kind of ironic that my wife was outraged by the Callaway golf Ad for “domestic violence” victims and how it’s “triggering” but is defending a woman who strangled her kids to DEATH with an exercise band. TikTok feminism has completely fucking ruined society