Dating is exhausting

Dating over 45 is rough! I’ve tried Bumble, Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, eHarmony, and FB Dating, and so far… nothing good. 😩
I’ve even gone to a few speed dating events, and honestly, they were painful lol.
I feel like Tinder might be my last resort, but I’m definitely not looking for hookups. For those of you over 45 who use Tinder, have you actually had any luck finding a serious relationship on there? Is it worth trying?

NYC Based