AITAH?

I 27 F and my wife whos autistic 41 F, have been in a relationship for 2 years we are having a lab child, though I found her phone and she has been looking at gay porn and playing polybuzz on her phone i was outraged So naturally I wiped her phone, that night when she got home from her Job as a grocery worker i didn't great her like usual, she asked "what's wrong" but I just shrugged and walked away angrily.

Later that night she discovered her gay porn and polybuzz gone, she angrily marched up to me we then got in a huge argument from which she suggested we file a divorce. I am currently sleeping on the couch. I don't know ware I'll stay if she Kicks me out of the house and what will happen to our child?

Update: I am cheating on her with 51 F raging lesbien I got her 21 drinks at the bar as well as myself because I am emotionally copping with my former wife. She slept at love hotel with me and we did some things and than then she asked to be my girlfriend. I said yes we are now planning a wedding.

I will update on this later btw.

Am I the asshole?