My wife is leaving DoD

She served me when traveling for work on our wedding day. I was at home with the kids. Luckily my mother travelled across the county to help me out this week.

She has a military pension. 15 years married in CO.

She makes 2x as I do since getting out since she retired.

I have sacrificed my career for hers. But I also don’t want to be seen as not trying to progress in my career since I have sacrificed