42 [M4A] We had a dead bedroom, now wife is insatiable…

42mwm.

I’m married to my college sweetheart. We have only been with each other. Not even kissed others.

But during the Covid lockdowns I went into a deep porn addiction and we mostly stopped being intimate. We basically had a dead bedroom for over 5 years.

We tried to work through it many times. We would discuss ways to lessen her “mental load”, I helped out more, etc.

Sometimes things would get better for a brief period, but we would end up back in a bad place.

It has really damaged our relationship. It feels like we have been roommates.

This has all changed over the last three months. She returned back to an office setting. She has been happier and healthier.

And our sex life is so much better. She is asking for sex almost daily. We are having wilder sex - she is doing things we didn’t before. Much more frequent oral including deep throat and asking for facials.

She asks for anal or at least playing with her ass frequently. She talks filthy in bed.

Obviously Im enjoying this change - but having a hard time keeping up.

And of course I just don’t understand the change. Glong back to work is part of it, but it’s like a whole new world.

Anyway - I’d love to chat about this and also to hear if anyone else has had this kind of change happen.

Hope to hear from you!