Sad my baby doesn’t look like me

While I love my husband very much and think he’s a great guy, he did not carry our daughter for 9 months, suffer through pregnancy symptoms, undergo labor, handle pumping and breastfeeding, or deal with an extremely traumatic birth that has rendered me so down bad that it’s depressing me. He has stepped up in every way so it’s not that either. I just think I should see at least some parts of my face when I look at our girl.