34 [M4F] - Tall, fit and caring daddy type, missing the emotional and physical connection with someone

It’s a tale as old as time, and not a particularly unique situation. After ten years and two kids the passion and excitement is gone. The bedroom is dead and our time spent together is non existent. But life is comfortable and splitting up and starting over is not. So I’ve found my way to this shady part of Reddit to try and find a woman to shine a light on my gray life. And hopefully I can return the favour.

I’ll try to sales pitch myself as best as I can without beating my own drum too much. I am 6’4, 85kg and in decent shape. Thick, brown hair, green eyes, a stubble, and big hands (seems to be popular to mention). I have a lot of small tattoos on my arms, but that’s the only hipster thing about me. Well, I do listen to a lot of indie music, so I guess that falls in to the same category.

I work as an engineer, which I enjoy as far as jobs go. I’m a big football (soccer) fan, but my own playing days are behind me, so now I focus on coaching my sons team. As a person I am pretty gentle and calm. I guess the classic strong, silent type. I wont get wound up easily over things I can’t control. But I do like having control. I tend to take on responsibility and do things so they get done properly. Cooking, grocery shopping, working on the house etc.

My control needs also apply to the bedroom. To be in charge of someone submissive and feel big, powerful and dominant. I do enjoy mixing it up though. Being gentle and caring at first, and then get rougher.

The woman I am looking for should be able to hold a conversation without making me feel like I have to carry it by myself. A bubbly and cute personality and be interested in getting to know me. I have no real preferences physically apart from being somewhat healthy. A nice chest however is always a nice bonus, and I tend to prefer short women.