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Salaam everyone! I wanted to ask for some advice because I would genuinely like to get married.

Where do you guys think is a good place to meet seemingly good men who are focused on their deen and work/career? I feel like I never get approached when I’m out, and even when I go to Somali events or masjid events in my area, men never really approach me... 😭 I know sometimes I’m with friends, so I completely understand that approaching a group of girls can be intimidating lol, but I’ve also gone to events by myself and still… nothing.

I’ve even had friends tell me that I look really innocent, like I’ve never talked to a guy before… and honestly, they’re not wrong because I haven’t 😭😂 So if you have any serious advice, I’d genuinely appreciate it! What has actually worked for you? I’m open to hearing anything that’s worked. And no, I don’t think I’d ever approach a guy myself because I’m way too shy for that.

Posted Aug 29, 2026, 1:19 PM UTC

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