Giving dating one honest shot before my parents set me up in an arranged marriage | 23M | Bengaluru
Hi friends,
I’m a 23 year-old software engineer in Bengaluru (hailing from Gujarat) looking for a girl to seriously date.
**About me:**
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Job: Software Developer in a MNC
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Hobbies: Cooking, Swimming, Bathroom Singing, Card games
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Height: 5'7
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College: graduated from one of the top 5 IITs
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Non-smoker, Non-drinker and pure vegetarian
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Emotionally Available ✅
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Investing to achieve financial stability 📈
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Love dogs, tea, beaches, and mountains. A bit scared of cats as I got scratched once
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Never been in any relationship
**What I am looking for:**
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I am looking for a real, in-person connection. I'm not looking for long distance relationship. We should be able to meet at least 3-4 times in a month
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Should be emotionally mature
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Should lead a clean and healthy lifestyle. Additionally, you are a pure vegetarian and a non-smoker/non-drinker (or genuinely willing to quit if we get along).
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***Should value peace, trust, and clear communication.***
**What doesn't matter:**
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Height
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Caste
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Past relationships unless you are still into them
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Where you come from
Please include an intro when messaging me. It helps.
Posted Aug 29, 2026, 1:21 PM UTC