Giving dating one honest shot before my parents set me up in an arranged marriage | 23M | Bengaluru

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Hi friends,

I’m a 23 year-old software engineer in Bengaluru (hailing from Gujarat) looking for a girl to seriously date.

**About me:**

  1. Job: Software Developer in a MNC

  2. Hobbies: Cooking, Swimming, Bathroom Singing, Card games

  3. Height: 5'7

  4. College: graduated from one of the top 5 IITs

  5. Non-smoker, Non-drinker and pure vegetarian

  6. Emotionally Available ✅

  7. Investing to achieve financial stability 📈

  8. Love dogs, tea, beaches, and mountains. A bit scared of cats as I got scratched once

  9. Never been in any relationship

**What I am looking for:**

  1. I am looking for a real, in-person connection. I'm not looking for long distance relationship. We should be able to meet at least 3-4 times in a month

  2. Should be emotionally mature

  3. Should lead a clean and healthy lifestyle. Additionally, you are a pure vegetarian and a non-smoker/non-drinker (or genuinely willing to quit if we get along).

  4. ***Should value peace, trust, and clear communication.***

**What doesn't matter:**

  1. Height

  2. Caste

  3. Past relationships unless you are still into them

  4. Where you come from

Please include an intro when messaging me. It helps.

Posted Aug 29, 2026, 1:21 PM UTC

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